This entry is more like an update of the craziness I am still dealing with as I prepare to move. Yesterday was my 34th birthday. Eek! It was a busy day too. I was suppose to head to downtown to take care of some paperwork in order to prepare to move, suppose to meet my ex’s mother for lunch, pick up my son from school, go to the chiropractor to follow-up on my lower back pain and then have a birthday dinner with my family.

I had to wake up at the crack of dawn to get my son to school about 15 minutes earlier in order to increase the hope that I could actually be seen by the self-service clinic that helps with family law. I had to get paperwork filed requesting for permission from the court to move my son out of the area since my ex-husband strongly objects and has started sending me emails threatening that he will take legal action to prevent me from moving. I am not fearful. I don’t mean to get all preachy on you guys but I am a Christian and I feel that just as God is helping my business flourish, He is also leading me into new waters by changing my “sails”. I have peace of letting the home go (it looks like we will end up short selling the home). For those of you that have read the story of Job, let me just say that I feel like Job. Even though I was never rich nor powerful, like Job; I feel I have lost everything. I had lost my marriage, my hope of having more children closer in age to my son and now my house. Although I still have my son (thank the Lord) and my health (thank you again Lord) I still feel as though all is gone. Gone…but not lost. I know my days ahead will be brighter and that one day God will restore all that was lost. I believe God will bless me with the most amazing husband/father beyond my wildest dreams and that one day I will be most successful with my online business and get my dream home. A home 3x the size of the one I am losing and in a city far more beautiful than San Jose.

Yesterday, I had to break the news to my son’s grandmother (my ex’s mother) about us moving. Naturally she cried. He is her only grandchild in California. The others live in Minnesota. Of course her first suggestion was “Well why don’t you just work as a dental assistant so you can afford an apartment here”.

I looked at her and refrained from scoffing. I took a deep breath and explained; “If I work as a dental assistant, I cannot work on my online business and if I do not work on my online business, it will never grow. Some day my business is going to earn me twice or three times the amount I ever would have made in the dental field. I am already earning a passive income from it and some day I will only need to do 2-3 hours of maintenance work on it instead of my 8-10 hours now.”

No one gets this. You get this and I get this, BUT people that are not in the IM world have no clue. They still think that internet marketing is a hobby or a scam or they just don’t believe that you can earn a real honest living from it.

Even the latest email I received my from my ex also mentions this notion: “Why don’t you get a REAL job”?

I can’t help but laugh because the day is coming when I will just wake up with my cup of coffee, log onto my computer to check out my earnings for the day and see that I have already earned more money while I slept than he has while he has already been working for 3 hours that day.

Even when I look at my earnings yesterday it really makes me appreciate my passive income. How many people can say they earned $35.89 while standing in line at the superior court office or while getting treatment in the chiropractor’s office. I have not touched any of my sites in several days and yet they continue to earn. Internet marketing is the ideal online business!

I know for many of you, you cannot just quit your job and work full-time. And for some of you, I know your husbands or wives are extremely skeptical and they are at their wits end of seeing you spend hundreds of dollars on IM materials and monthly fees each month. Just remind yourself, you are doing this for your family. You will have to make sacrifices now but your day will come where you can tell your boss to suck it and quit your job with the satisfaction of knowing you did it! You made it and now you even freed up your time to spend with your family. Life is so short and your kids grow up so fast but you have the power to invest in your health and happiness.

Do whatever it takes to make your business a priority. Do not be discouraged by the people that say it doesn’t work or lead you to believe its not a real job. It is a real job and its your ticket to a better quality of life.